Recent situations arose that affirms this principle.
(You know how it's like sometimes to contradict your own principles. Human nature.)
While it's flattering, but to think that *imagine this* your close friend might be trying to get into your ex's pants, makes me feel sick to the stomach. Literally.
I felt weird, uncomfortable, and almost feeling sick to the point where I feel like puking. I might sound like I'm exaggerating here, but it's been trialed first hand, unknowingly. (I always give the benefit of the doubt until proven guilty.)
Rule number 666: Never get involve (intimately) with your ex's friends, especially when they're really close. It's not just wrong, you might be hurting someone you care about, which I think it's worst than being wrong.
But of course if you had a bad breakup and you're wildly attracted to his/her friends, jump right in. If it works out to be a blooming relationship, good for you. Otherwise, you'd probably end up being on that "slutty ex" conversations.
I don't get how some people can just do it. Either they're too caught up with themselves to care, or really just being hypocrites in general.
I know I sound like a prude and judgemental. But that's only cause I felt really, really, really upset with the situation.
And it makes me wonder if I was already on that topic to have caused these "possibilities".
Ugh.
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